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1998.
Unless otherwise specified, the comments below are solely the personal opinion of Doug
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Upcoming Media Activity
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Wednesday, June 10, 1998
Another Family Enjoys Gay Day
Here's another comment from a non-gay
family enjoying Gay Day at Disney...
I don't know if you remember, but you gave me some excellent
advice lately regarding Operation Rescue and Gay Day. I had concerns about taking my
children to Disney when the Operation Rescue people would be protesting, and you suggested
their numbers might not be what they were claiming. You were right! I went ahead and took
the boys Friday and Saturday, spending Friday at the MK, planning to spend Saturday at
Epcot.
When I read the Orlando Sentinel Saturday morning, a front page
article stated that the protest had fizzled, the Operation Rescue numbers were really low.
I decided that before taking the boys to Epcot, we would visit the MK and see what Gay Day
is all about. Kevin, my 8-year-old knew about Gay Day, Scott is autistic. I told Kevin a
long time ago that a gay man is a man who would rather be married to a man, and a gay
woman prefers to be married to another woman. Maybe that's not technically right but he
accepts it, and Scott accepts everyone as they come.
So, we just walked over to the MK (we stayed at the Contemporary)
at about 8:00 am. We went on a few rides and started noticing the Gay Day tees, the
rainbow tees and others, and then something else-people smiling, making eye-contact and
looking really happy in the happiest place on earth! I felt like I was at a really good
party and just hadn't met anyone yet. I loved it and I was very sorry when I had to leave
without talking to anybody. Next year, that won't happen, I'm going in the morning and I'm
staying all day, and I'm wearing a Gay Day t-shirt, too. Kevin was under whelmed
and
obsessed the whole time about buying a bag of rocks from outside the Snow White ride--
must be a little boy thing.
Thanks for your wonderful advice, Doug. I only regret we have to
wait 360 days to do it again!
Take care,
Kay
Tuesday, June 9, 1998
Is Pat Robertson Becoming
Senile?
Apparently Pat Robertson of 700 Club
fame has a message for Orlando. And he takes it seriously. We think Pat's just been out in
the sun a little too long and needs to rest up, cool down, take an aspirin (and maybe a
Viagra or two). He's marginalizing his followers issuing such proclamations, and
alienating the intelligent ones. This is leaving him with a group of fanatics much like
Operation Rescue today finds itself left with. Can it be long before the media takes
notice that the ranting of a lunatic are not in itself news? Associated Press apparently
hasn't caught on yet. Here's what Pat has to say, courtesy of the Associated Press:
VIRGINIA BEACH, Va., June 9
Religious broadcaster Pat Robertson said Orlando, Fla., should beware of hurricanes
after allowing Gay Days to be held there last weekend. Robertson also said the widespread
practice of homosexuality "will
bring about terrorist bombs, itll bring earthquakes, tornadoes and possibly a
meteor."
On Mondays "The
700 Club," the Christian Broadcasting Network talk show, Robertson said: "I
would warn Orlando that youre right in the way of some serious hurricanes, and I dont
think Id be waving those flags in Gods face if I were you."
Gay organizations sponsor the annual Gay Days in Orlando. The flags
Robertson referred to have a rainbow design and flew from downtown utility poles during
the celebration.
Robertson said his warning "is not a message of hate. This is a
message of redemption."
Mitch Rosa, president of Hampton Roads Pride, a regional gay rights
group, laughed when he heard of Robertsons remarks.
"I feel sorry for him, I really do," Rosa said. "If hes
worried about a hurricane, he should worry first about his own roof."
Pat and people like him apparently just cannot
get it through their heads that nobody "allows" Gay Day at Disney. Orlando, and
Walt Disney World, do not have any say in Gay Day at Disney. It is simply a day/weekend we
in the gay and lesbian community have chosen to visit the Walt Disney World Resort
together. Disney makes no special arrangements for us, and in has stated many many times
that they welcome everyone into their parks, without regard to sexual orientation. We buy
a ticket, just like any other guest.
The religious right is rampant with stupidity and illiteracy,
apparently. Hurricane's, tornadoes, and earthquakes are caused by atmospheric and
geological conditions. Not because tens of thousands of people who happen to be gay or
lesbian choose to go to a theme park. Pat, do you think you actually gain credibility
issuing such proclamations? Does it gain you anything, personally? Perhaps this is just
the basis of yet another hate-filled fundraising campaign to help Pat pay off mortgages on
some luxury homes or cars, or perhaps he wants to go on a vacation somewhere. Or maybe
there's a mistress blackmailing him. Who knows. One thing is certain, he's grasping for
straws.
Monday, June 8, 1998
Another Family Enjoys Gay Day
We do very much enjoy receiving these sort of trip reports. Please keep
them coming!
I would really like to thank everybody
involved with Gay Day 98 (who happens to read this, anyway) for making our last day at
Disney World the highlight of our vacation! My wife and I and our 4 year old daughter Emma
were just finishing up a week of broiling under the atypically steamy Florida sunshine,
when Gay Day presented itself to us in all its red-shirted splendor.
There was definitely a noticeably different spirit in the park that day,
one of comfortable enjoyment and perhaps even celebration. (Also, we thought we saw a lot
more of the dress-shirt, tie and walkie-talkie Disney-types around... maybe just our
imagination?)
The high point for us was the 9pm parade. We happened to camp out on
the curb next to a gay couple and a family from England. With an hour to kill, my daughter
and the two English kids started playing, and sharing toys, squirt bottles, fiber-optic
flashlights and fun with each other and with the two (handsome, my wife tells me) gay men
next to us. By the time the parade showed up, we were all old friends... so much so that
at one point one of the guys snuck away and came back with fancy Mickey Mouse candy tubes
for the kids.
At 4 years old, Emma has no idea what the day was about, and other than
noticing that there were "a lot of people wearing red shirts" it was a day at
the Magic Kingdom like any other day. It couldn't have been more perfect. Hopefully one
day we'll be able to look back at the videotape from that day with her and let her know
that she was part of a very special day.
It was the sort of positive experience we, as parents, always hoped
we'd be able to provide our daughter... but not the kind of experience that can be
planned. It was an unforced, unplanned, unpretentious, totally subtle lesson is kindness
and generosity of spirit. It was a way to show her (rather than merely telling her) that
we're all a lot more the same than we are different, and a way to head off the negative
stereotypes that are prevalent in the current God-fearing anti-common-sense
great-fodder-for-George-Carlin atmosphere of the late 1990's.
Thank you,
--Tom, Laura and Emma, way@cis.udel.edu
Sunday, June 7, 1998
The News Keeps Pouring In
Check out our News Archive
for news reports from around the nation about Gay Day at Disney.
Stand Our Ground a Major
Success!
The Stand Our Ground
silent counter-protest organized by Alana Hommel, a Massachusetts housewife and mother,
was a resounding success. Not a single American Family Association protestor was reported
to be at any Disney Store in the United States, however Stand Our Ground brought
a groundswell of supporters to every single Disney Store!
We'll never know what economic impact this has had, as Disney
does not release sales figures or comment on such protests impact, but there should be a
number of happy people at charitable organizations around the country who will be
receiving donations of Disney toys and stuffed animals over the next few weeks, and happy
children everywhere who will be playing with something so dear to their hearts.
Congratulations to Alana and everyone who participated! Even
though American Family Association was found to be full of hot air on this issue, we
remain vigilant for such anti-family activities in the future.
Everyone Enjoys Gay Day, Not Just
Gays!
I've had numerous inquiries these past weeks from
non-gay families who found through news reports that their vacation was going to be
intruded upon by Operation Rescue, asking for advice about attending, since they were
concerned for their children. It should be noteworthy that they had no qualms coming
during Gay Day, but were worried about violence from Operation Rescue, and subjecting
their children to such a hostile environment. Here's a reply I received from one of these
families about their experience during Gay Day 98...
Thanks for your positive response. We had a
blast!!! From the moment we arrived on Disney property (we got there at 7:30 am, and there
were no protestors at that time), the mood was festive and, well, gay!! I never expected
what I saw. There was extra security all over the place, and the Disney employees seemed
to be having as much fun as the Gay Day participants. Dan and I left Disney around 10:30
a.m. (it was insanely hot and crowded), and took the monorail to Epcot. We met a wonderful
lesbian couple who had been fortunate to be able to adopt two children from China. I
listened to them tell their story to some other women in our car, and it brought tears to
my eyes to see and hear their accomplishments.
Neither Epcot nor MGM were packed, yet the red shirts still
managed to stand out. I felt very honored and proud to have been part of such an
incredible event. It wasn't until that evening that we even knew that there had been
protestors. The day (and night) went on without conflict.
We are already starting to plan our trip to next year's Gay Day at
Disney, so if you could keep us informed, we'd appreciate it. We hope to partake in more
events, and to bring some friends with us.
--Judi & Dan
Saturday, June 6, 1998
Amusing If Irrelevant...
When dealing with some of the outrageous protest groups
and boycott leaders around the country these days, one can only wonder what crosses the
minds of CEO's at targeted companies. This audio file
offers an amusing possibility.
A Personal Note
I received the following note from a 15 year old gay youth who
has previously been in contact with me regarding what Gay Day at Disney would have to
offer him. I thought it was worth sharing...
I did go to Disney World on Saturday. I am so happy
that I went, I must have met like 30 friends at least. About 20 of them I met at once. I
had a group picture taken with all these friends of mine. We didn't hang out the whole
time though, it was just too big of a crowd. I met one kid who was so nice to me. In fact
they were all so nice to me. The youngest one of my friends that I met was 17. All of them
could not believe I was just 15. They all thought I was 18. I look a lot older than what I
am. Gay Day was the best day in my entire life. I never felt so happy. I completely loved
it. In all honesty though, that youth meeting thing was really nothing at all. All it was,
was a bunch of kids who just met each other and hung out the whole day. Most of the kids
didn't even know what they were doing there. So I think that could use some improving
somehow. Either way, I am so happy that I went because it will change my attitude on
things.
Gay Day Draws Record Numbers
Despite the threats made by militant protest groups like
Operation Rescue, a record number of gay men and women attended the eighth annual Gay Day
at Disney today. Organizers estimate more than 100,000 people have come to Orlando Gay
Day, and that approximately 80,000 to 85,000 visited The Magic Kingdom throughout the day
on Saturday. The Magic Kingdom event was the original event in 1991 when Gay Day first
began, but now is but one of more than 41 parties and events that make up Gay Day at
Disney.
As the event has matured, many people who visit also have found they
prefer to visit other Disney theme parks which also garner a large number of Gay Day
visitors on Saturday, even though it's not the primary focus for the day. Just the
warm feeling of being among so many other gay men and women while visiting the parks has been
enough reason to avoid the huge crowds at The Magic Kingdom and explore other areas, such
as Disney-MGM Studios, EPCOT and The Animal Kingdom.
Disney raised the capacity of The Magic Kingdom to 85,000 at any one
time for Saturday, and organizers provided significant notice concerning anticipated
crowds and the potential for the park closing due to capacity. This caused many to decide
to visit other theme parks at Disney on Saturday, and ultimately led to The Magic Kingdom
approaching closely, but never exceeding the capacity limits.
Unless Disney were to offer an opportunity to designate specific
turnstiles for use only by patrons visiting for Gay Day, we'll never really be able to
offer exact counts of attendance. And we certainly do not want to ask Disney to separate
us into a category in that manner. We are, as we've said many times before, simply
visiting as we and any other guests can do any time of the year. Organizers and many Gay
Day visitors said that it appeared some 70% to 80% of visitors at The Magic Kingdom were
there for Gay Day.
Friday, June 5, 1998
The Mouse That Roared
Operation Rescue has been left out in the cold by an
unexpected difference of opinions on tactics by American Family Association. The week-long
agenda of Operation Rescue and the in-your-face tactics they have employed apparently has
not found favor among leaders of the American Family Association. AFA leaders now say they
will no longer associate with Operation Rescue or represent them or their members in any
legal proceedings.
The split has left Operation Rescue without legal counsel, and
without resources for bail money, prompting Operation Rescue to tell their followers they
are not to do anything to get arrested tomorrow at The Magic Kingdom.
In all the week of protests originally planned by Operation
Rescue to coincide with Gay Day at Disney has not only been something of a dud, but has
seriously split an alliance between two hate-groups, and consequently has weakened both of
them significantly.
Gay Day organizers who have repeatedly stated that Gay Day at
Disney is not a forum for political protest are still more than a little pleased to find
that they may have inadvertently caused the split between Operation Rescue and AFA. What
it boils down to, according to organizers, is people in the general community were
presented with one choice to make: support the confrontational and sometimes violent
tactics of Operation Rescue, or support the peaceful attendance by a group of gay men and
women at Disney theme parks and nightclubs around Orlando.
When presented with such a polarizing decision, public opinion
easily went to the side of Gay Day at Disney. Operation Rescue and American Family
Association lost a serious amount of respect and clout amongst their ever-decreasing base
of supporters.
Beach Ball 98
More than 4,100 gay men and women descended on Typhoon Lagoon
for Beach Ball 98, a private party sponsored by Watermark Media, Inc. A number of pictures
from this event are now online in our photo album. More will be
added over the next few days.
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| Some of the more
than 4,100 guests at Beach Ball 98 enjoy the wave pool at Typhoon Lagoon. |
Lounging on the
Lazy River during Beach Ball 98. |
Thursday, June 4, 1998
Gay Night at Mannequins Dance
Palace
Every Thursday has become something of a tradition in the
Orlando Gay and Lesbian Community at Mannequins Dance Palace, where a large number of gay
men and women have visited Mannequins Dance Palace at Downtown Disney Pleasure Island. The
Thursday before Gay Day at Disney has always been a popular night. Tonight was certainly
proof positive that record crowds will be in attendance at Gay Day events everywhere. By
10 pm, the main floor was shoulder-to-shoulder with Gay Day visitors. It looked much like
Saturday night at Mannequins on Gay Day has looked in past years, seeming to be an almost
exclusively gay and lesbian crowd.
But that's not all! Other clubs on Pleasure Island also had
large numbers of gay men and women, especially 8Trax, Adventurers Club and outside amidst
the P.I. Live street entertainment. If this is any indication of the number of people in
town this year for Gay Day, there's probably at least twice as many people in town for Gay
Day this year than last (we estimate approximately 65,000 people went to The Magic
Kingdom for Gay Day last year, and about 80,000 people attended Gay Day in 1997).
Mannequins' bartenders were so busy they brought in additional
help early in the evening. At 2 am when the lights went up, the party moved outside as
Disney security made somewhat futile attempts to get people off the property and on their
way to home or hotels.
Partygoers who are accustomed to the later closing hours of big
cities around the country, as well as more intelligent laws about remaining inside clubs
after liquor can no longer be served (rather than being forced into cars and onto the
roads), didn't want the party to stop, and took their time to break up and leave. (To
Disney: you legally can serve liquor until 3 am, and legally can keep the party going into
the morning hours without alcohol being served, and have done so at least for one Gay Day
in the recent past. Why not respond to the opportunity and give everyone an even better
nighttime experience, and keep everyone safer by giving them time to recover from a night
of drinking and dancing?)
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| Several thousand
gay men and women enjoyed the spectacular sound a light experience at Mannequins Dance
Palace, Downtown Disney Pleasure Island during Gay Night on Thursday, June 4, 1998. |
A few Gay Day
patrons taking a break from dancing order a drink at Mannequins Dance Palace. |
Gay Day 98 Hospitality Suite
A steady stream of Gay Day visitors began stopping in
at the Gay Day 98 hospitality suite at Hyatt Orlando which opened today. As the day
progressed, more people began arriving per hour. The Gay Day weekend is well underway! You
will find tickets for One Mighty Party 2, Club Skirts Harem, RuPaul at House of Blues, and
Sunday Gospel Brunch at House of Blues available for sale, as well as a limited number of
2-day park hopper Disney tickets. T-Shirts, caps, fanny bags, key chains, commemorative
phone cards, temporary tattoos, buttons and other merchandise are also available for
purchase. Gay Day program guides are available.
Gay Men and Women Everywhere
Most everyone I spoke with today at the hospitality
suite has mentioned seeing a number of other Gay Day visitors checking in at the hotel
they are staying at. That's not just our official hotels, but a wide variety of hotels all
over the Disney and Orlando areas.
Operation Rescue Irrelevant
No Orlando news media was heard reporting on any Operation
Rescue protest activity today. Either the group has given up, or the news media has tired
of reporting on the antics of the same out-of-state protestors who are imported by
Operation Rescue everywhere they plan to hold activities. There is, after all, only so
many times one can endure the same misguided and misinformed quotes being delivered by
trained protestors.
Traveling through Disney property, it is evident there's a
heightened level of security present everywhere. Disney has taken Operation Rescue's
threats seriously and is actively engaged in ensuring no guests experience is marred by
this group of cookie-cutter protestors.
Wednesday, June 3, 1998
Gay Day 98 Events Off To An Exciting
Start
Tonight I had the pleasure of accompanying a reporter
covering Gay Day 98 for a major Brazilian daily newspaper (actually for an article in
their Sunday magazine supplement, with a circulation of 1.5 million) during a preliminary
visit to Downtown Disney West End and through several Downtown Orlando nightclubs. Many
visitors have begun to arrive in Orlando, but the majority will be arriving in the next
two days. There is an excitement in the air amongst local residents who were out at clubs
around town. As we eavesdropped on conversations around us, many people were making their
plans for attending the variety of events on the Gay Day 98 schedule.
It's quite exciting to realize that in just eight years, Gay Day
98 is attracting significant positive attention world-wide.
Gay Day 98's first major event is a visit to Animal Kingdom,
Disney's newest theme park, on Thursday, June 4, 1998.
Flip Benham Arrested
Abortion protest leader Flip Benham was arrested today
for violating an injunction prohibiting the use of amplified sound equipment within 1,000
feet of an abortion clinic. Benham claimed he was more than 1,000 feet from the clinic when
in fact he was about 250 feet from it, according to police estimates. It appears that
Operation Rescue has been caught yet again in an attempt to redefine reality. Perhaps it
is necessary to provide some education to Operation Rescue leaders about the measurement
system in use in the United States.
Benham is a menace to society, and we are extremely pleased to
find he has been, at least temporarily, removed to his usual home-away-from-home (jail),
perhaps for the duration of this misguided protest in Orlando.
The general feeling around Orlando is that these protestors are
not welcome, regardless of how the message they are delivering may be received. Orlando
residents are not at ease with protestors of any sort, for any reason, who are not local
residents. General opinion appears to be that no one who is not a resident of Orlando has
any business in protesting how Orlando decides to do business.
The full story is available in the Orlando Sentinel article National Abortion Protestor Arrested.
Operation Rescue Nowhere To Be Found
Talk show hosts on Real Radio 104.1 actively went
searching for Operation Rescue protestors today and were unable to locate them at Barnes
& Noble, where they had been expected to demonstrate in their belief the Barnes &
Noble is selling child pornography. Perhaps they were at J.C. Penney in the boys underwear
section.
According to the Operation Rescue Web site http://www.orn.org, members spent Tuesday night outside the
jail where several Operation Rescue members arrested Monday were still being held pending
the posting of $1,000 bond. The District Attorney was apparently willing to assess them
with time served, however the judge refused the offer.
Roman Catholic Bishop Admits to
Abusing Boys Sexually
Once again a leader of a gay-hostile religious institution
(this time it's the Roman Catholic Church) seems to be involved in child molestation,
according to a report in The Orlando Sentinel. What does this have to do with Gay Day?
Nothing at all, actually. But then, what does Operation Rescue have to do with Gay Day?
Reading this just added to our annoyance over the repeated and tiring hypocritical
statements we continue to endure from groups like American Family Association and
Operation Rescue, and we thought it worth sharing. Apologies to any gay Roman Catholics in
the audience.
Did Operation Rescue Do Anything
Yesterday?
We were not able to find any coverage of any activity
with Operation Rescue or other protestors. In fact, we could find only a lovely piece of
commentary (The City Pathetic? We Don't Think So) by Greg
Dawson of The Orlando Sentinel. Maybe the protestors couldn't take the heat from Monday,
were embarrassed about their small turnout, lack of any progress in their agenda, and
decided to rest up for later in the week. Or maybe they spent the day recruiting
impressionable children so they would have more people willing to lie down in the street
and get arrested later in the week... who knows? (Inside joke for Florida residents:
where's HRS when you really need them to rescue kids from unfit parents?)
Tuesday, June 2, 1998
Operation Rescue Suffers A Case Of
Deja-Vu
The hotline established by Operation Rescue
(1-407-897-0973) for their Orlando activities was never updated at all today and continued
to carry a recording made Sunday telling protesters they planned to picket at the abortion
clinic on Virginia Ave. in Orlando and at the 2 pm Orlando City Council meeting, both
activities were actually part of their Monday agenda. Either Operation Rescue forgot to
update the phone message, or since there are so few members in attendance protesting, it
was simply easier to just tell them all personally.
Talk Radio Continues the Obsession
with Rainbow Flags and Gay Day
The rainbow flags are now flying in downtown Orlando
and the stir caused by the religious right and Operation Rescue over the issue and over
Gay Day continued on most radio stations.
Monday, June 1, 1998
Rainbow Flag Installation Approved
Today more than 1,000 people attended an Orlando City Council
meeting where approval of the installation of 720 rainbow flags throughout downtown
Orlando was on the agenda. More than 50 people addressed the council, including a large
number of people who are not Orlando city residents. The final outcome was that approval
was given (the vote was 6 in favor, 1 opposed) to the application and installation of the
flags commenced later that night.
The flags and the associated fees for installation and removal
were paid for with private donations totaling over $15,000. No city funds were used
whatsoever, though it appeared from comments by the religious right that they were not
completely aware of this. Much can be said about the protesters awareness of reality,
however, in general, based upon their misinformed and bible-misquoted commentary during
the City Council meeting.
We were rather proud to note that most of these protesters were,
at least, equipped with the latest printout of the final schedule from this web site, and
apparently were capable of reading, at least to a limited extent. However based on their
comments about it, they could not seem to get past the Wednesday event at The Club at
Firestone-- perhaps they really wanted to attend but were a little embarrassed about it
amongst their cohorts-- and were incapable of understanding it was a private event
sponsored by an area business (as are all but the events at Disney parks) and not part of
the Orlando Gay Pride month activities which actually occur later in June and are not part
of the Gay Day at Disney weekend.
Were I an Orlando City Council member, I would have told
everyone who asked to address the council on the matter who was not an Orlando resident to
go back to their seat. In fact since I'm no longer a resident of Orlando myself, I was
patiently just watching the proceedings until I was approached my a number of people who
do live in Orlando to speak before the council to correct the misinformation that was
being presented about the content on this web site. It was somewhat pitiful to see the
Orlando City Council and especially the mayor unable to do so, apparently for fear of
angering some militant religious organization. Instead they preferred to let everyone
speak, what they said being of any relevance to the issue or not, and wasted everyone's
time in the process.
In the end at least, most all the council members did follow the
advice of their legal counsel who said that were they to reject approval for the flags at
this point, the city would likely be sued, and they would most certainly lose, and the
flags would go up anyway, but then the city would be paying substantial legal costs. (The
Orlando City Council recently was the cause of more than $300,000 of taxpayer money being
wasted when they lost a lawsuit stemming from their attempt to stop, of all things, an
abortion clinic from opening in the city of Orlando.) It's a shame to see the Orlando City
Council make the right decision for the wrong reasons.
The council members also approved a moratorium on further flag
displays until they could "study" the issue. Do they mean to address the
possibility the KKK or John Butler Book may try to have flags representative of hatred and
intolerance, or do they mean to find a way to keep gay flags from flying next year?
Orlando residents: you better make sure you're registered to vote, and that you make
yourselves and your opinions known to your elected officials now.
More information is available in the Orlando Sentinel article Gays Win Right To Hang Banners.
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| 360 light poles in
downtown Orlando will each have 2 rainbow flags displayed through the month of June in
commemoration of Gay Pride Month. |
The light poles
behind the Orange County Courthouse with rainbow flags on display. |
Adopt A Protestor
After the Orlando City Council meeting, I exited from
City Hall to find someone I knew engaged in a shouting match with an elderly woman who was
against allowing the rainbow flags to fly in Orlando. I stepped in-between them and began
talking to the woman myself. I asked her opinion about the issue and expressed mine as
well, the we began discussing the meaning behind the flags, why, in my opinion, she should
be less concerned about them than she apparently was, and why it was seemingly important
to the gay community. We went on to discuss some history, including time she'd spent
living in Hollywood, CA amidst the 1950's and 1960's era movie stars, including the likes
of Rock Hudson and several other gay men and couples. It was fascinating, actually, once
she opened up and began recounting things she and her husband had been witness to. Towards
the end, we got into all sorts of other issues, like smoking, cigarette taxes, who's
bearing the cost of the rainbow flags (she'd actually thought the city was paying for
them, hence her disapproval of it... she seemed to reconsider when she discovered that
really wasn't the case).
Basically, my point here is that the protestors, as much as we
may enjoy an argument or have fun putting them down in some manner, are people too. And
together, we have far more in common and a lot worthwhile to share with each other
than we
have differences.
When the situation seems appropriate, why not try to engage in a
discussion instead of a stalemate over pronouncements of your positions? Explain yourself,
don't just state your position or some generic "but it's wrong." Go into the
why. Try to give some examples. Get some input from the person you're speaking with as you
go. Engage in discussion, not in lecturing. You may ultimately agree to disagree, but
you'll humanize the issue too. I sincerely believe I may have provided her with some
reason to reconsider her opinion on this issue. And I certainly feel enriched by having
been able to share a small portion of her experiences from earlier in her lifetime.
Operation Rescue Protest Results in 5 Arrests
5 of the approximately 50 to 60 anti-abortion protesters who
attempted to block traffic by laying down in a roadway were arrested by Orlando Police.
Two were minors, Keith McGlade (age 17) and Eric McGlade (age 12) who were released
without bail to the custody of their parents. Others arrested include Eva Edl, Howard
Heldreth and Josh Turk, currently being held pending $1,000 bond (reduced from the
original $2,500 bond).
Operation Rescue had announced to the press that they would have
several hundred protesters. The limited turnout was expected by Gay Day organizers and
Orlando community leaders, as Operation Rescue has historically over inflated estimates in
order to attract media attention.
More information is available in the Orlando Sentinel article: Police Arrest 5 At Abortion-Clinic Protest.
Talk Radio Obsessed with Rainbow Flags and Gay Day
Throughout most talk radio programs two topics were
prevalent: Gay Day and the Rainbow Flag issue that was facing approval by the Orlando City
Council. Most talk show hosts expressed the sentiment held by the majority of Orlando area
residents and early Gay Day arrivals: The people within Operation Rescue are a bunch of
"knuckleheads" (as one prominent talk show host puts it). Even the talk radio
hosts who chose to satirize gay men and women did so in what can readily be taken as a
positive way. Expect more such coverage throughout the week on most every legitimate radio
station serving Orlando area listeners.
Sunday, May 31, 1998
Two Men Arrested at Downtown Disney in
Attempted Theft
Tonight in an isolated incident two lesbians were at Downtown
Disney West Side, in front of the Virgin Megastore, when a man snatched the purse of one
of the women and attempted to flee in a vehicle driven by an accomplice. An off-duty
police officer who happened to witness the event chased after the man. Six police officers
who were on property or close by on patrol responded immediately. The thief and his
accomplice were arrested and are now in jail.
The theft really was in no way related to Gay Day and just
happened to involve two lesbians who are planning to participate in Gay Day events, but
does demonstrate the level of coverage by Disney security and police currently present
everywhere on Disney property in response to the announced threats by Operation Rescue.
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